Honoring Our Fallen Heroes

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Frederick “Fritz” Phillip Ackermann III, 90, died peacefully at home in Wilmington, North Carolina, on December 4, 2021.

Born on January 19, 1931, in Newark, New Jersey, Fritz was the son of the late Frederick Phillip Ackermann II and Pauline Staats Ackermann.

He graduated from Virginia High School in Bristol, Virginia, and then attended Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University. He took a break from his studies when he was drafted into the U.S. Army. Fritz served in the Korean War, where he was stationed in Germany and was able to connect with his relatives during his time there. He later graduated from East Tennessee State University and worked as an engineer and plant manager for large companies, including IBM, Xerox, and Rockwell, relocating from Lexington, KY, to Rochester, NY, Mission Viejo, CA, Westport, CT, and Jackson, TN. In 1978, he moved to Wilmington, where he and his wife founded Ackermann Tool and Machine, and later, Ackermann Marine.

Fritz loved the beach and sailing, with a particular fondness for St. George Island, FL, where the family had a house, Sea Haze, from 1977 to 2014. Many family vacations and memorable moments were spent there. He also enjoyed working in his woodworking shop, making furniture and turning bowls, and was a regular visitor to the local library. Fritz’s fundamental advice to his children was to “be a good person,” and his life reflected that principle. Although he could be serious, he also appreciated humor and loved sharing stories, such as how he was pulled over in Florida for drinking a root beer or the tale of the snake and mouse fight in his bathroom. He grew large stands of bamboo in his yard, complete with inflatable panda bears and a panda crossing sign. His stories and warm presence will be deeply missed.

Fritz is survived by his wife of 58 years, Hazel Dilmore Ackermann, and their two daughters: Margot Ackermann (Dan Hall) of Richmond, VA, and Paula Ackermann of Wilmington, NC. His daughter from a previous marriage, Susan Ackermann Tabor (Tom), lives in Stuart, VA. His sister, Evelyn Ackermann Tyrone, resides in Chatham, NJ. Six grandchildren and two great-grandchildren also carry on his legacy. He will also be missed by Bella the Corgi. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by three children: Frederick Phillip Ackermann IV and two infant daughters, Patsy Ann and Karen Ann Ackermann, as well as his sister Margot Ackermann Tate.

Fritz was a long-standing member of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Wilmington. The family will host a private memorial service at a later date, and his ashes will be placed in the Veterans’ Memorial Reef.

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Colonel Douglas J. Beach honorably served in the United States Army Medical Research and Development Command (USAMRDC) for over 24 years, culminating in his retirement on July 31, 1979. A highly accomplished biochemist and analytical toxicologist, Col. Beach held the rank of Colonel (O-6) and served both stateside and abroad, including assignments in Japan (1955–1958) and Thailand (1972 and 1975–1977).

His distinguished career included advanced military education in chemical, biological, and radiological (CBR) defense, mass casualty management, and counterinsurgency. He served in leadership roles such as Chief Clinical Laboratory Officer and was recognized for excellence with multiple commendations, including three Legions of Merit, the Meritorious Service Medal, the Army Commendation Medal, and the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal 

Col. Beach’s academic background in medical technology supported a lifelong dedication to science and service, with nearly 25 years of active duty and over 5 months of foreign service. His legacy is one of honor, intellect, and devotion to both country and medical progress.

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Petty Officer 3rd Class Richard Dean Bishop was born and raised in Jacksonville, Florida. Following his graduation from high school, he proudly enlisted in the United States Navy on December 8, 1969. During his active-duty service, he was assigned to the USS Yellowstone based in Charleston, South Carolina, serving as a Radio Operator with the MOS RM-0000. While in the Navy, Richard completed a number of specialized training programs, including Communications Yeoman Class “A” School, Naval Training Course for Seaman, Basic Military Requirements for Seaman, and Military Requirements for Petty Officer Third and Second Class. He also underwent a Secret-level personal security investigation. After active duty, he transferred to the U.S. Naval Reserve, serving two additional years at the Naval Reserve Manpower Center in Bainbridge, Maryland. For his honorable service, he was awarded the National Defense Service Medal. He was honorably discharged on August 8, 1975. After his military service, Richard—known fondly as “Ricky”—returned to his cherished hometown of Southport, North Carolina. In the late 1970s, he began a lifelong career as a commercial fisherman, spending his days doing what he loved most: being on the water. Whether he was steering a boat or casting a fishing line, Ricky was truly in his element. He became a beloved and familiar figure in Southport, widely regarded as the face of the local commercial fishing community. Known for his humility, humor, and heart, Ricky never met a stranger and was deeply respected by those who knew him.

Fulfilling his wish to return to the water for his final rest brings peace to those who loved him.

Richard Dean Bishop is survived by his son, Joshua Raine Bishop; daughter-in-law, Callie Jo McDuffy; and cherished grandchildren, Barron and Lily.

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James L. Bloodworth, Jr., age 67, of Wilmington, North Carolina, passed away on Sunday, October 31, 2021. A devoted father, son, brother, and friend, James lived a life marked by service, strength, and love. He honorably served in the United States Army from 1973 to 1977, achieving the rank of Specialist. During his military service, he was awarded the National Defense Service Medal and the Army Overseas Service Ribbon, reflecting his dedication to duty and commitment to his country.

James is survived by his beloved children, Katrina N. Bloodworth of Middletown, NY; James L. Bloodworth III of Charlotte, NC; and Angel S. Bloodworth of Wilmington, NC. He is also lovingly remembered by his mother, Pauline Bloodworth of Wilmington; his siblings, Stephen W. Bloodworth, Sr. (Natalie) of Washington, DC; Terry D. Bloodworth; Angel B. McKoy; Tony M. Bloodworth (Barbara), all of Wilmington; and Carol L. Bloodworth of Charlotte, NC. He leaves behind six grandchildren and a host of extended family members and dear friends.

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Lawrence Joseph Bourgeois was born in Belleville, Illinois, to Raymond and Elma Bourgeois. He grew into a young man of character and conviction. When his country called, Lawrence answered, enlisting in the United States Navy and reporting for duty during one of the most defining periods in American history. He served aboard the USS Oriskany (oh-RIS-kuh-nee) during the Vietnam War era. For those who may not know the name, the Oriskany was an aircraft carrier, a floating city of steel and purpose, crewed by men who understood that duty does not pause for comfort or safety. 

On October 26, 1966, a fire broke out aboard the Oriskany at sea, one of the most feared emergencies any sailor can face. In the chaos of that morning, Lawrence did not hesitate. He worked to move ammunition and powder cases away from the flames, reducing the risk of further explosions and protecting the lives of the men around him. His actions that day were not performed for recognition. They were performed because that is who Lawrence Bourgeois was. For his courage, he received a Letter of Commendation, a formal acknowledgment from the United States Navy that his service, his bravery, and his commitment to his fellow sailors had made a difference. 

He rarely spoke of it. That, too, tells you everything about the man. After his honorable discharge, Lawrence returned to civilian life, as so many veterans do, carrying his values with him without fanfare. The discipline, the loyalty, the instinct to show up for the people beside him: these did not leave when the uniform came off. They simply took a different form. 

He became a devoted husband, a father, a grandfather, and a great-grandfather. He was a brother, a friend, and a constant presence for those he loved. His greatest joys were uncomplicated: time on the water with a fishing line in his hand, laughter around a table, and the company of family. 

There is a full-circle moment in Lawrence’s story that is worth pausing as we say goodbye. 

The USS Oriskany, the very ship he helped protect on that October morning in 1966, was deliberately sunk off the coast of Florida in 2006 and now rests on the ocean floor as an artificial reef, known today as The Great Carrier Reef. A vessel once built for war has become a sanctuary — a place where sea life gathers, thrives, and finds shelter. It did not simply fade away. It was given a new purpose, and in that new purpose, it continues to matter. Lawrence’s legacy carries that same quiet power. The sailor who helped save that ship now leaves behind a family, a story, and an example that will carry forward long after today. Like the Oriskany (oh-RIS-kuh-nee), his service did not end; it transformed. It lives in every person he shaped, every life he touched, and into eternal service on the reef.  

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Robert Fulton Bozart passed away on November 6, 2019, at Lower Cape Fear Hospice in Wilmington, North Carolina. He was 82.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, Robert was the son of Fulton William Bozart and Mary Sheehan. He attended St. Therese of Lisieux School and Brooklyn Technical High School, where he studied drafting. Upon graduation, he began work as a draftsman before proudly enlisting in the United States Navy.

During his nine years of military service, Robert served aboard four submarines, concluding his naval career as an E-5 Leading Missileman on the USS Sam Rayburn (SSBN 635). He earned a scholarship through the Navy to attend NC State University, furthering his education with distinction. After being honorably discharged, Robert worked for Aetna Life and Casualty before founding his own company, Safety Services of America, in Charlotte, NC.

In 1962, Robert married Bryna Barrett, his lifelong companion and partner.

Robert was preceded in death by his parents; his brothers, William and Billy Bozart. He is survived by his beloved children: Mike, Joe, Ronnie, Danny, Albert, and Betsy; their spouses, Sharon, Tammy, Magen, and Jonathan; and 10 cherished grandchildren: Dusty, Joey, Melanie, Alison, Sydney, Jayden, Kirk, Eva, Brandon, and Tennyson. He was also blessed with one great-grandchild, Cayden Bozart.

He is remembered fondly by his brother, Jim Bozart, and his spouse, Baxter; niece, Suzanne Bozart; nephew, Bob Bozart; and, of course, Bryna, who remained by his side throughout his life.

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ROBERT DAVID BRANNEN, SPC, USAR

SPC Robert David Brannen was born 2 Jun 1950 in Camden, SC.  He enlisted in the US Army on 20 Jan 1969 where his point of entry was Charlotte, NC.  His date of rank to SP5 was 17 July 1970. His military MOS was 68B20, Aircraft Turbine Engine Mechanic and Repairman.

He served honorably and graciously with the 291^st Aviation Company with the US Army North (5^th Army).  SPC Brannen received his MOS training as an Aircraft Engine and Malfunction Repairman at the US Army Transport school in 1969.  He served courageously and admirably in Vietnam from 25 June 1969-23 Nov 1970.

SPC Brannen was honorably discharged from the US Army Reserve on 3 Dec. 1974.  His service is a true display of exceptional professionalism, unrelenting perseverance and loyal devotion to duty during and following the Vietnam War. It reflects credit upon himself and his family, and were in keeping with the highest traditions of the United States Army.

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Earl enlisted in the United States Navy in 1953 and served during the Korean War era. As a young sailor, he served aboard the USS Allagash, where he worked in the engineering department and learned the discipline, skill, and responsibility required of life at sea. He also continued his training at Great Lakes, Illinois, preparing himself for the demanding work of keeping a ship running and supporting the sailors who served alongside him. Earl served proudly. 

After his time in the Navy, Earl built a long and respected career as an electronics technician. He was talented, dependable, and highly regarded by those who worked with him. He did more than simply do his job well; he helped others learn, grow, and find their footing as they began their own careers. But Earl’s life was not defined by work alone. His greatest joys were found outdoors and in the company of the people he loved. He was an avid hunter and fisherman, spending countless hours with friends in the woods and on the water. Those were places where he felt at home, places of patience, peace, stories, and friendship. Earl also had a deep love for animals, especially his loyal dog, Red. He often shared childhood memories of caring for animals and nursing them back to health. That tenderness said a great deal about the kind of man he was. Family gatherings were filled with laughter, love, good conversation, and Earl’s unforgettable cooking. These were among his happiest moments. He had a way of bringing people together, making them feel welcome, and leaving them with stories they would carry long after the day was over.  May his service be remembered, his stories be treasured, and his legacy live on in all who knew and loved him. 

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John served his country in the United States Navy during the Vietnam War era. During his years of service, he developed strong skills in communication and electrical work, serving both stateside and overseas. His time in uniform reflected discipline, dedication, and a willingness to serve wherever he was needed. He completed his Navy service with an honorable discharge. But John’s life was much more than his time in uniform. After returning to civilian life, he built a career as a land surveyor, work that suited his resourceful mind, steady hands, and appreciation for the land around him. He had a deep love for the outdoors and shared that love with his family from the very beginning. Camping trips, fishing, state parks, and time outside were not just hobbies for John; they were part of how he lived and how he connected with the people he loved. 

 Though life took him to different places, John was always drawn back to the coast. He loved the salt air, the ocean, and the peace that came from being near the water. In Southport, he found a place that felt like home, alongside his wife, his true partner in life. John spent his later years doing the things that brought him joy: fishing, photography, bowling, working with his hands, tinkering in the garage, and spending time with family. He was a man who could fix things, figure things out, and usually find a way forward, often with humor close behind. Those who knew John will remember his generosity, humility, and independent spirit. He believed in living and letting others live. He had a goofy, irreverent sense of humor and an easy willingness to laugh at himself. He stood firm in his principles, especially when he saw someone being treated unfairly or in need of help. 

 John gave freely. If someone needed something from him, he offered what he could without expecting anything in return. That kind of quiet generosity leaves a mark. He loved his family deeply and cherished the time he spent with them. His friendship, humor, and generous spirit touched all who knew him. 

 May his service be honored, his laughter remembered, and his spirit carried gently by the tide. 

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Petty Officer 3rd Class John Matthew Connolly, lovingly known as Captain Jack, was an extraordinary man — a devoted husband, father, grandfather, friend, and proud United States Navy Veteran. Born in Bay Ridge, New York, Jack answered the call to serve his country on October 10, 1963, at the age of 17, driven by a deep sense of patriotism and duty.

He spent three and a half years on active duty and an additional three and a half years in the U.S. Naval Reserves, dedicating himself fully to advancing his military training and skills. His specialized instruction included Special Weapons Loading School, Weapons Loading Course, and several advanced technical training programs, including SN, MRPO 382, AN, and AO 3 & 2 courses. For his service, he was awarded the National Defense Service Medal and was honorably discharged in 1967 in Norfolk, Virginia.

Jack’s commitment to public service didn’t end with the military. From 1980 to 2000, he served heroically in the Binghamton, New York, Fire Department, earning the respect and admiration of colleagues and his community alike.

Known for his adventurous spirit, Captain Jack was an avid sailor who found pure joy in the open sea. A generous, fun-loving Irishman, he fully embraced life as a modern-day pirate — basking in the sunshine, chasing the wind, savoring the moment, and, of course, enjoying a bit of rum. He was a natural storyteller, quick to make friends and even quicker to share a joke — lots of jokes, some more colorful than others.

Jack had a larger-than-life personality and lived every day with passion, humor, and heart. He leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

He is survived by his former spouse, Carole Slocum; his son, Matthew; his sisters, Patricia and Mary; and his beloved grandson, Ethan.

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Ed served his country in the United States Army and served in Vietnam. He was an Army aviator, and flying was more than his work; it was one of the great loves of his life. Whether he was flying in service to his country or later as a commercial pilot, Ed was happiest in the air. During his military service, Ed became skilled in several aircraft and earned the respect of those who served with him. He was known for his ability, judgment, and steady presence, especially in difficult circumstances. For his service in Vietnam, Several Medals including, including the Bronze Star Medal. The Bronze Star Medal is among our nation’s distinguished military honors. Ed received it for outstanding service during military operations in Vietnam. The recognition spoke of his quick judgment, his ability to solve serious problems in a combat environment, and his loyalty and devotion to duty. 

Those words tell us something important about Ed. He was a man who could be counted on when it mattered most. After his Army service, Ed continued doing what he loved. He became a commercial airline pilot with United Airlines, where he flew for 36 years. For Ed, flying was not just a profession; it was part of who he was. His love of aviation followed him home, where he built and flew five airplanes of his own. He had the mind of a pilot and the hands of a builder, someone who understood both precision and possibility. He also enjoyed boating. Few people follow their passion so fully as Ed did.  But as much as Ed loved flying, his greatest devotion was to his family. He enjoyed being with the people he loved. He raised his children with grace, teaching them respect, knowledge, education, and kindness. His wife, Jill, was by his side for many years, and together they built a family rooted in love, loyalty, and togetherness. 

 Family meant everything to Ed. So did the community. His devotion to those he loved extended outward through generous involvement in the lives of others. Today, as this flag is folded in his honor, we remember Edward Amos Davis, Jr.: a soldier, an aviator, a husband, a father, a grandfather, a friend, and a man whose life was marked by courage, skill, service, and love. May his service be honored, his love of flying remembered, and his legacy continue to lift the lives of all who knew and loved him. 

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Karen Spell Edwards came into Sam’s life and changed it. Karen was born in Guilford County, North Carolina, on October 7, 1960. She grew up with strength, energy, and heart. She attended Appalachian State University, and in her younger years, she was a world-class athlete, earning bodybuilding championships and running many marathons. She built her life through hard work, skill, and genuine care for people. She worked at The Lazy Turtle Oceanfront Grille on Oak Island, where she made lifelong friends and left a smile on the faces of those who crossed her path. She later became a highly skilled Licensed Massage Therapist, a profession she practiced for more than forty years. It was work that required both ability and warmth — and Karen had plenty of both. 

Karen was outgoing, kind, and known for seeing the best in everyone she met. She was a devoted mother, a loving sister, and a beloved wife. To those who loved her, Karen was not only strong and accomplished; she was generous, bright, and full of life. Sam and Karen married in March of 2020. Though their time together as husband and wife was shorter than either of them deserved, it was full of love, companionship, and devotion. Karen passed away on July 10, 2023, after a courageous four-year battle with cancer. Her loss was one Sam carried deeply from that day forward. Today, Sam and Karen Edwards are laid to rest together in the ocean they loved — side by side, as they were in life. The sailor and his mermaid returned to the sea. Sam Edwards, Jr. served his country with honor across three branches of the military. He worked with integrity, gave back to his fellow veterans, and lived with quiet strength. Karen Spell Edwards was a devoted mother, wife, sister, athlete, healer, and friend. She brought warmth to others, strength to every battle she faced, and love to the center of Sam’s life. 

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Sam Loper Edwards, Jr. was born in Broward County, Florida, and grew up in West Palm Beach, shaped early by the Florida sun and the pull of the ocean that never really let him go. After high school, he went to work with Ranger Construction, where he learned the value of hard, honest labor before answering a call to service that would help define the rest of his life. 

Sam served honorably in the United States Navy, the United States Navy Reserve, and the United States Army. Across three branches of service, his commitment spoke for itself. In the Navy, Sam served as a Fire Control Technician Second Class, working on sophisticated missile guidance systems that helped protect ships and the sailors aboard them. It was precise and demanding work, requiring technical skill, discipline, and absolute reliability. Sam was known for all three. He was not a man of many words. He did not need to be. His record spoke for him. His character spoke for him. Those who served with him, worked beside him, and knew him in the years that followed understood exactly what kind of man he was: steady, dependable, and committed to doing things the right way. After his military service, Sam continued serving through his work at Military Ocean Terminal Sunny Point, where he was a Surveillance Inspector in the Ammo Surveillance Department. Those who worked with him knew they had someone they could count on every single day. He was respected as a true asset: reliable, capable, and deeply committed to the mission. Sam also gave back in quieter ways, volunteering his time with organizations that brought offshore fishing experiences to disabled veterans. Long after his uniformed service had ended, he continued to serve. For Sam, service was not just a chapter of life. It was the through line of it. 

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PFC Eldridge took the oath of office for the United States Marine Corps on 15 Mar 2021. He completed his basic training at Parris Island, SC. He was assigned to the II Marine Expeditionary Forces, Marine Intelligence Group. His MOS was 2111-Small Arms Repair Technician in the Armory. Ethan received his Ordinance School Diploma, MCT Training, and the Expert Rifleman Award. Although his service was a short 10 months, he served honorably and faithfully.
PFC Eldridge worked at two civilian occupations. He was an Electrician Journeyman at Security Plus Electrical, and worked at Lowes Home Improvement Store as a Lumber Department Yoder. Ethan dedicated his free time to community service and volunteerism. At Camp Lejeune, he led daily PT and various basketball programs. He shared his love for music at Waterview Learning Academy where he gave guitar lessons to his fellow students. He participated in the Rockfish Meadows Christian Camp’s music ministry. His love of the Lord and religion guided his to participate in the Broken Bread Church/Castle Hayne Baptist Church worship teams where he played guitar and sang solos. HIS GREATEST JOY OF ALL, WAS BECOMING AN UNCLE TO PRINCESS ELLY!
Ethan had so many other interests which helped make him the wonderful, multi-talented man he was. He played all string instruments with enthusiasm and vigor. He shared his singing, and knowledge of music history with anyone who would listen! He tinkered with motorcycles, welding, fishing, hunting, gaming, cooking and baking, woodworking, and his all time favorite, Starbuck’s coffee. ETHAN’S SISTER, LAUREN ELDRIDGE describes Ethan like this: “He had a sense of honor matched only by his sense of humor. He was the strongest, most capable person anyone could imagine. He was a loving son, brother, uncle and friend. He was also a talented musician and devoted follower of Christ. Any life he touched was better because of him”.
SHE, sums it up by saying, “Ethan played the **** (blankedy blank) out of an instrument, would give the shirt off his back, and was not afraid to kick some *** (blankedy blank) when necessary. We love you and miss you so much”.
PFC Ethan Kemp Eldridge, rest in peace and thank you for your service.

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Fred served his country in the United States Army during the Korean War. He entered the Army as a young man and served in South Korea, where he faced the harsh realities of war with courage and determination. He was wounded in service and received the Purple Heart.  Those who served beside him knew him by the nickname “Bird City,” a reminder of his roots in Byrdstown, Tennessee. Fred’s service reflected bravery, sacrifice, and deep patriotism. He carried his experiences with him throughout his life and remained proud of his service. He wanted others to understand the sacrifices made by those who serve in uniform and spoke of these sacrifices with honesty and conviction. Though his formal education ended early, Fred had a remarkable mind, a natural gift for mathematics, and the ability to figure out almost anything placed before him. After returning home, Fred began a long and respected career with Lumbee River Electric Membership Corporation. He worked as an electrician and dedicated 41 years to the company, earning the respect of those who worked alongside him.  

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Ruth Evans was the heart of the home. She was a devoted homemaker, but that title only begins to describe all she did. She also worked for years at Townsend Pharmacy in Red Springs, where she helped fill prescriptions, manage the soda fountain, and kept the books part-time.  She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and devoted dog mom. Her greatest joys were found in her family.
Simply put, she did it all. Together, Fred and Ruth raised a family and built a life centered on love, faith, hard work, and service to others. Fred’s courage and Ruth’s compassion complemented one another.  Their commitment to each other did not end with this life. It was Ruth’s wish to be laid to rest with Fred at the Veterans Memorial Reef. Now, they will remain together, just as they were in life, husband and wife, partners and companions. Fred served his country with courage, and Ruth served through love, care, faith, and devotion.  

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Some lives don’t simply unfold; they echo. John Fryar’s life is one of those rare echoes that carry across generations.  John grew up in Harnett County, North Carolina. At just seventeen years old, he walked into a Navy recruiting office, choosing service over comfort and duty over ease. While most young men his age were looking forward to school, to work, to the future. John was already stepping into history. The war in the Pacific had just ended.  Serving as a Seaman First Class aboard the heavy cruiser USS Fall River, John’s early assignments took him to places that had just changed the course of human history. He was sent to Hiroshima and Nagasaki, not as a combatant, but as part of the Navy’s effort to understand and document the impact of the atomic bombings that ended World War II.  In 1946, John was assigned to Operation Crossroads, the military’s nuclear weapons testing program in the Marshall Islands. The USS Fall River floated in those waters for months, waiting. When the moment came, John was approximately four miles from the second detonation, the Baker test. A nuclear explosion set off beneath the surface of the ocean. After the tests concluded, the USS Fall River set course for home. The crew was told they would have three weeks of liberty in Hawaii, a well-earned reward. They never left the ship. 

Geiger counters confirmed what the Navy feared. The crew’s radiation levels were too high. They were denied shore leave, and the Fall River was eventually brought into dry dock in Long Beach, California, where it was cut apart for scrap metal, still too radioactive to be left intact. John came home carrying more than memories. In 1947, he transferred to the Naval Reserve and enrolled at Embry-Riddle Aeronautical Institute, determined to build a civilian life. That plan was interrupted when the Navy called him back to active duty for the Korean War, adding two more years of service to an already remarkable record.  

American Legion Post 543 and Steve Muir found John in his later years and refused to let his story go untold.   Although he had grown estranged from much of his family, John’s son stepped forward to honor his father’s final wishes, and once again, it was Steve Muir who reached out to the Veterans Memorial Reef. Through the generous support of sponsors Mr. and Mrs. Walter and Patricia Kusek and Mr. Lewis Barnes, that wish is fulfilled today. Seaman First Class John Fryar served at seventeen. He witnessed history at eighteen. He answered the call again at twenty-three. And he carried the weight of it all with the dignity and restraint of a man who never asked for recognition. 

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Shawn Michael Heiser, age 48, of Wilmington, NC, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 5, 2020, surrounded by his family.

Shawn was born on November 12, 1971, in St. Albans, Vermont.  He was the son of John Harvey Heiser and Judith Tracy Heiser.

He is survived by his father, his mother, his wife, Kimberly Englestadter Heiser, his sister, Jean Heiser, his brother and sister-in-law, Matthew Heiser, and Laura Broderick Heiser, his brother-in-law, Geoff Englestadter, his mothers-in-law, Karen Harris, and Carolyn Englestadter, and his nieces and nephews, Madison Heiser, Saleena Englestadter, Molly Heiser, Ty Englestadter, Harley Englestadter, Reilly Zehner, and Jack Heiser.

Shawn adored his loving wife, Kimberly.  The couple married on October 1, 1999, in Burns, Oregon.  After living in Oregon for eighteen years, in 2012 they decided to move to Wilmington, NC, to be closer to Shawn’s family.  For many years, Shawn was Kimberly’s main caretaker and advocate while she battled with health problems.  Shawn also leaves behind his best friend Zeke, a beautiful German Shepard, and 8 loving cats.  Shawn had an extreme love for animals and had rescued many over his lifetime, even fixing over one hundred-fifty feral cats.  Shawn and Kimberly looked forward to their daily four-mile family walks with Zeke.  Shawn had a special bond with Zeke and the two loved venturing out in the neighborhood, to various parks, nature trails, or their favorite place, the beach.

Shawn served his country with honor and distinction for four years in the United States Marine Corps 2^nd Reconnaissance Battalion.  Shawn was a front-line operator during the Persian Gulf War and Operation Restore Hope in Somalia where he served two tours.  Because of his bravery and sacrifice, Shawn was decorated with many medals and campaign ribbons including the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal, the Combat Action Ribbon, the Joint Meritorious Unit Award, the Navy Unit Commendation Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Armed Services Expeditionary Medal, the Southwest Asia Service Medal with three stars, the Sea Service Deployment Ribbon with two stars, the Kuwait Liberation Medal, the Meritorious Mast and the Sharpshooter Qualification.

As a veteran Reconnaissance Marine, Shawn lived a complete life of service, duty, and determination.  He embodied the Recon Creed, sacrificing personal comforts and dedicating himself to the completion of all missions.  In 2006, Shawn graduated Cum Laude from Oregon State University with a bachelor’s degree in psychology.  After graduation, Shawn immediately began his next mission:  to attend law school and pursue a career as an attorney.  After acceptance to law school, Shawn was faced with making a difficult decision, as he was also given the opportunity to fulfill a lifelong dream of being a law enforcement officer.  Deciding to forego law school, Shawn accepted this offer and fell in love with his new career.  In their home town of Burns, Oregon, Shawn protected and served the people as a city police officer.  As a testament to his gentle nature, he was often thanked by those he arrested for treating them with kindness and dignity.  Shawn donated his time to serve the community of Wilmington as a member of the Island Men, a non-profit organization that promotes camaraderie, helps local charities and works on projects to promote the quality of life for residents.

When Shawn and Kimberly moved to Wilmington, North Carolina, in 2012, he quickly set a personal goal to become a licensed realtor.  By chance, Shawn met Dawn Berard who immediately sensed something special in him.  It could have been his infectious smile, his gentle demeanor, or his beaming sense of pride when he discussed his real estate goals that moved Dawn to offer him a position at her fledgling real estate brokerage, Sold Buy the Sea Realty.  As a realtor at Sold Buy the Sea since 2013, Shawn helped the company grow from four agents and one office to twenty-five agents and a second office in Hampstead, North Carolina.  Because of his service in the Marine Corps, Shawn had a heart for veterans and helped them achieve the dream of home ownership in Wilmington by guiding them through the VA home loan program and addressing their unique challenges.  Shawn was adored by his clients and his colleagues loved him dearly.

When not working, Shawn longed to be in nature and especially enjoyed the area beaches where he and his sister would often make impromptu trips to enjoy each other’s company and reminisce about good times spent together during Shawn’s Marine Corps service.  He enjoyed riding Harley Davidson motorcycles and was an amazing chef, second only to his mother.  He liked to draw and was learning to play piano and guitar.  Shawn was a passionate reader.  He loved reading for pleasure and to learn.  He would read at least two books per week and was always known for taking his Nook everywhere he went.  Shawn was also an avid golfer, a sport taught to him by his mother-in-law, Karen Harris, while living in eastern Oregon.  His love of golf was passed down to his brother, Matt, whom Shawn taught how to play at the age of thirteen.  Matt would visit Shawn and Kimberly for several weeks at a time during each summer of his middle and high school years.  He and Shawn bonded during this time spent together, much of it spent playing golf.  Shawn and Kimberly recently started attending Port City Community Church and Shawn found peace in rekindling his relationship with the Lord through his Christian faith.

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LLOYD RAY HENDERSON, SPC, US ARMY

CPL (E-4) Lloyd Ray Henderson enlisted in the U Army 3 July 1952.  His point of entry was San Francisco, CA., where he was assigned to the 194^th Fighter Sq., Hayward, CA.  He was then assigned to the 89^th Army Band at Ft. Sill, OK.  He was on active duty until 5 June 1954 when he was honorably discharged from the US Army.

Upon discharge from active duty, CPL Henderson transferred to the Air National Guard, Military District of California.  He served honorably there for the remainder of his 8-year commitment.  He received an honorable discharge from the Air National Guard of California on 2 July 1960.

CPL Henderson’s service is a true display of exceptional professionalism, unrelenting perseverance and loyal devotion to duty following the aftermath of World War II., and during the Korean War.  It reflects credit upon himself and were in keeping with the highest traditions of the United States Army.

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Clark Frederick Hiller enlisted in the US Air Force in 1962. His MOS (military occupation specialty) was 54550- Refrigeration Specialist. He served in both the Active and Reserves components of the Air Force. He served with the 814 Combat Support Group and 78th Air Base Wing. His tour of Duty was at Westover AFB, Chicopee Falls, MA, where he specialized in air conditioning and refrigeration. His military conflict included the Cuban Missile Crisis. His awards and medals include Air Force Good Conduct Medal, SC G-78, and S14 CSCp. Clark was immensely proud of his military service.
Upon retirement from the military Clark started working in the civilian sector. He worked at Ronback Marine, then Stout Construction where he was a Marine contractor and crane operator. He was proud of his career and always practiced with integrity, enthusiasm, and safety. He was very active and respected as the Commodore of the Amityville Yacht Club.
Clark loved to hunt, play golf, ski and fish. He spent 45 years working and playing on the water so it only seems fitting for him to return to the sea. He was the biggest NY Jets fan and cheered for them for 60 years. Clark was a great father; definitely a “girl dad” and the best Pop-Pop to all his grandchildren.
He was married to his beautiful bride, Cathi, for 51 years. They traveled and had a very fulfilling life. When Parkinsons disease took over his body he always pushed through and made sure he was present for his family’s milestones. He was very much loved by his family and friends and is missed every day.
Clark is survived by his wife, Catherine; daughters- Heather, Tracey, and Jill; sons-in-law- Keith and Bobby; sister- Wendy; grandchildren- Guy, Elexa, Damion, Josh, Koby, Kyle, Kali, Mya, Jay, and Izzy; and great-grandchildren- Bryce, Khari, and Ariya.

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Alice Huffstetler,  was born in Gastonia, North Carolina.  She went on to build a long and successful career with Southern Bell Telephone and Telegraph, where she worked her way up through the ranks and retired as a supervisor. Alice was hardworking, capable, and respected. She gave her time and energy to her community, her church, and the organizations that reflected her values of fellowship, service, and faith. Wade and Alice were married in 1950. Together, they built a life grounded in love and Christian faith. They were blessed with a daughter, who was the light of their lives. As parents, Wade and Alice were devoted and intentional. They created a loving home and gave their daughter Martha every opportunity to grow into a loved, kind, and educated woman.  Those who knew Wade and Alice will remember them as truly loving and generous couple. Friends and family loved spending time with them, and many felt their lives were enriched by their faith, influence, and example. 

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Wade was born in Mount Holly, North Carolina, and answered the call to serve his country during World War II. He enlisted in the United States Navy and served with dedication. During his service, Wade worked with aircraft engines, propellers, and related systems. His responsibilities included inspecting vital aircraft equipment, both on shore and aboard aircraft carriers. It was demanding work, and Wade carried it out with steady commitment. He carried that same work ethic into every chapter of his life. He built a respected career as a supervisor and later worked in technical sales, earning the trust of those around him through his knowledge.  

Wade was also deeply committed to his community. He was a Mason, a deacon, and a respected leader in his church. His faith was not something he simply spoke about; it was something he lived through service for others. 

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MSgt John Thomas Keibler enlisted in the United States Air Force at 18 years old in 1973. He did his basic training at Lackland Air Force Base. After basic training, he had multiple TDYs in Keesler AFB, MS; Sembach Kaserne Air Force Base, Germany; and Chievres Air Base, Belgium. John attained the rank of E-7, Master Sergeant. His MOS (military occupation specialty) was 2E 173- Ground Radio Communications Craftsman. He served during the Vietnam and Desert Storm conflicts. His awards and medals include the Air Force Commendation Medal with 1 Oak Leaf Cluster, Joint Service Achievement Medal, Air Force Training Ribbon, NCO Professional Military Education Grad Ribbon, AF Longevity Service Award with 3 Oak Clusters, Air Force Overseas Long Term Ribbon, National Defense Service Medal with Bronze Star, Air Force Good Conduct Medal with 4 Oak Leaf Clusters, Joint Meritorious Unit Award; and Meritorious Service Medal. John received an Honorable Discharge after 22 years of outstanding, honorable, dedicated service. He would be the first to tell you that he thoroughly enjoyed his military career, which afforded him many travel opportunities, friends, and the opportunity to meet his wife, Chantal, in Belgium.

Upon retiring from the United States Air Force, John worked as an Electronic Technician in Las Vegas. John always wanted to be near the ocean, so he and his wife, Chantal, relocated to Wilmington, NC, in 2012. Although John was a very private person, he enjoyed his family and friends. He was an avid jogger and walker, but as his health declined, he had to give up these favorite activities. He would sit outside on their patio in the fresh air and have the sunshine on his face. The only sport John was interested in was baseball. He attended many of the San Diego Padres games, which he thoroughly enjoyed.

John is survived by his wife of 29 years, Chantal Jonas, sons Shawn and Jon, and nephew Jason Keibler. John has always desired to “be buried at sea,” and his family has granted him this wish.

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SGT Donald Kealey Kessel enlisted in the U.S. Army on September 19, 1967, with the military occupational specialty of 11C40, Indirect Fire Infantryman. His service included time at Fort Lewis, WA, and a combat assignment along the Korean DMZ. He was assigned to the 8th Army, C Company, 3rd Infantry, 2nd Division. Don often recalled how bitterly cold Korea was and how he never wanted to be that cold again.

His awards and decorations include the National Defense Service Medal, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Combat Infantry Badge, Expert Infantryman Badge, Expert Badge with Rifle Bar, Sharpshooter Badge with Mortar Bar, and the Korea Defense Service Medal. He was honorably discharged on September 1, 1973.

Following his honorable service and graduation from Penn State University, Don began a successful career as a Certified Public Accountant. He started with Price Waterhouse in Pittsburgh, which eventually led to a unique opportunity for the family to live in Taiwan for two years. Don and his beloved wife, Drema, fully embraced this experience and cherished the culture they were immersed in. Asian art filled their home, and Don loved sharing the traditions, cuisine, and stories with friends and family. This overseas chapter sparked a spirit of global exploration in their children, inspiring them to travel and live abroad, positively shaping their lives and families.

Upon returning to Pittsburgh, Don established his own CPA practice and faithfully served his community for many years. Known for his integrity, professionalism, and work ethic, Don was not just an accountant—he was a trusted advisor. He often joked that he spent more time being a psychologist to his clients than preparing their taxes. During tax season, he would work long hours, and his favorite line after a late night or weekend shift was, “I wouldn’t work so hard if I didn’t have such a tough boss!”

Don was a kind, gentle, and loving partner to Drema, whom he affectionately referred to as “The Boss.” He was a devoted father and grandfather, always present, supportive, and full of humor. Family meals were filled with laughter, and Don especially loved the smell of onions and garlic cooking—insisting it would make the perfect perfume.

He brought joy and commitment to every family endeavor, no matter how difficult or silly. The unwavering foundation he provided made the years together feel like a blink. His family deeply loved and revered this exceptional man.

Don also volunteered as Treasurer of both the Franklin Regional Athletic Association and Newlonsburg Presbyterian Church. His passions included cheering for the Pittsburgh Steelers and Penn State Football, as well as playing tennis and racquetball. He expressed his creative side through stained glass design and linocut printmaking, a technique that involves carving linoleum to create intricate prints. A proud member of the Phi Gamma Delta fraternity, Don’s interests and values were wide-reaching.

His influence is reflected in the paths of his children—Courtney, Adam, and Brittany. All three seriously considered attending Penn State, with Adam and Brittany proudly joining their father as alumni.

Don’s love of the arts inspired Courtney to pursue her dreams as an artist. He was her biggest fan and collector, and his encouragement remained constant as she earned her Ph.D. in Interdisciplinary Arts.

His dedication to hard work and service led Adam to a career in the U.S. Marine Corps, following in Don’s footsteps in both military service and financial management. Like his father, Adam has also served as Treasurer in several volunteer organizations.

Don’s love for numbers came in handy with Brittany, too—he would often calculate her swim meet yardage down to the last lap. Today, Brittany continues his legacy, working in the accounting department of a major real estate firm.

The Kessel family wishes to thank all of our friends and loved ones for being such an important part of our journey and for joining us today to honor and celebrate Don’s life. Your love, support, and presence mean the world to us. We are deeply grateful to share this moment with you.

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Joseph Charles McDonald served as a petty officer first class. He held the rating of electronics technician known as an Electronics Technician First Class, or ET1.

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John LeRoy McGann enlisted in the US Army Aug 9, 1954 at the young age of 19 years old.  His point of entry was Ft. Sheridan, Illinois.  He achieved the rank of Specialist and served in the 57^th Field Hospital as a 711.10, Clerk Typist.  His commendations included the Rifle Marksman badge and the Good Conduct Medal.  He was released from active duty on July 19, 1956 and transferred to the US Army Reserve where he served with dignity and professionalism.  He spent most of his military career in Missouri and was honorably discharged from all military service on Sept. 30, 1962.

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Lieutenant Colonel Meigs was born December 20, 1944 in Charlotte, NC. He graduated from Garinger High School in 1962 and in the fall of that year enrolled in North Carolina State University in Raleigh, NC. He graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Engineering Operations in 1966. He eventually went onto complete a Master of Science Degree in Business Administration from Webster College in 1982.

Colonel Meigs received his commission in 1968 through Officer Training School in Lackland AFB, Texas. He was then assigned to Wright Patterson AFB Ohio where he was in charge of purchasing aircraft subsystems for the Aeronautical Systems Division. In 1971 he was assigned to Washington, DC as a consultant for the Commission of Goverment Procurement. From 1972 – 1974 he was assigned as Cheif, Avionics Central, Air Force Avionics Laboratory in Wright Patterson AFB, Ohio. In 1974 he was reassigned to Air Force Systems Command at Andrews AFB in Maryland as a Staff Officer and Inspector. During 1978 he was a student in AFIT’s Education with Industry Program where he worked at Hughes Aircraft in Newport Beach, CA. From 1979 – 1983 he was Executive Officer and Chief, Information Systems Branc at the Air Force Human Resources Lab at Brooks AFB in Texas. From 1983 – 1986 he was Chief, Data Systems Support Division, at Randolph AFB in Texas. In 1987 he assumed his current position as Commander of the 3302 Technical Training Squadron.

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Stefan Mrgan III, age 36, of Johns Island, SC arrived in Valhalla on November 2, 2021. Born in Kansas City, MO on May 16, 1985, he was a true hero to his country and family.
Known to most as Steve, he was a 15 year Army veteran, serving valiantly as a Green Beret in the War on Terrorism. He retired from the military as a staff sergeant, and was on a constant deployment cycle.He was a husband, father, son, brother, friend, soldier, outdoorsman, firefighter and diver. Steve Mrgan was without a doubt, the most distinct, notorious, uncut and bold man his friends and family had ever met, and perhaps the world has ever seen. He loved shooting guns, drinking whiskey, riding his motorcycle, working on his truck, and pouring his time and effort into serving others.
He is survived by his wife of seven years, Alison Mrgan, sons Trystin and Hunter, daughter Adelynn, brothers Joseph and Andre, sisters Monika and Erika, and father Steven. He was predeceased by his mother Cheryl.

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Operations Specialist 3rd Class petty Officer Mark Anthony Mueller entered the United States Navy July 10th, 2000. After completing boot camp, he reported to Operations Specialist “A” School in Dam Neck VA where he graduated in November 2000. From there he reported to Coronado, CA for Basic Underwater Demolition SEAL training, Class 235. He left the SPECWAR program and reported to Lackland Air Force Base, in San Antonio, TX where he completed Anti- Terrorism/Law Enforcement specialist training and was awarded Navy Enlisted Classification Code 9545.

OS3 Mueller reported for duty to Naval Air Station Sigonella Sicily, Security Detachment, Operations Dept, Charlie Section. He proved a to be a very intelligent and motivated Patrolman, handling numerous on/off base traffic accidents with/without injuries along with numerous other calls for assistance in response to the international state of emergency brought on by real world terrorist attacks. He was hand selected to the newly formed bike patrol team where he continued his success, completing his Emergency Medical Technician certification and NCIS first responder certifications. OS3 Mueller completed his tour and received an Honorable Discharge in October of 2004.

Amongst his awards were a National Defense Medal, Overseas Service Ribbon (2), Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, NATO Medal, NATO Medal for Kosovo Operations, Expert Pistol Medal and Sharpshooter Rifle Ribbon.

OS3 Mueller’s service true display of exceptional professionalism, unrelenting perseverance and loyal devotion to duty following the aftermath of the 9/11 terror attacks reflected credit upon himself and were keeping with the highest of traditions of the United States Navy!

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SGT William Frey Niesen enlisted in the United States Army in 1970. Motivated by a deep love for his country and a strong commitment to global peace, he served honorably as a dedicated Infantryman. His military service included a 12-month deployment to Vietnam and a brief assignment in Indochina. He held the MOS 11B20 — Light Weapons Infantry. During his time in the Army, Bill completed training in ATP 21-114, Chemical, Biological, and Radiological (CBR) defense, Individual Infantry Fire, Military Justice, and Vietnam-specific preparation. He was honorably discharged in 1972. Among his commendations, SGT Niesen was awarded:

• Bronze Star Medal for meritorious achievement in ground operations against hostile forces in the Republic of Vietnam

• Combat Infantryman Badge

• Vietnam Service Medal with one Bronze Service Star

• Vietnam Campaign Medal with 1960 Device

• National Defense Service Medal

Following his military service, Bill earned a Bachelor of Science degree from Missouri Valley College and a Master of Science degree from Georgia Tech. He built a distinguished civilian career as an Economist with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. An active member of his community, Bill served as President and Board Member of the CEWD Community Credit Union, and later shared his knowledge as an Economics Professor at Cape Fear Community College. Bill’s passions were as rich as his service. He enjoyed fishing aboard his beloved Grady White boat, barbequing, cheering on sports teams, playing basketball, spending time at the beach, and attending Blues and Jazz concerts. He was most joyful when surrounded by family and friends, always ready with a joke or a humorous story that brought laughter and connection.

William Frey Niesen is lovingly remembered by his son, Boyd, and granddaughters, Lauren and Logan.

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Capt Philip Knute Olson, Jr., enlisted in the US Marine Corps on Jan. 1, 1960. His MOS (military occupation specialty) was 0141—Administration. He was stationed at HqCO, H&S BN, San Diego, CA. He quickly advanced to head typist and then office manager. Subsequently, he PCS’d to Oxford, OH, where he enrolled in Miami University, obtaining a Bachelor of Arts in Mathematics and a Master of Psychology. Once he completed his graduate studies, he attended Officer Basic school, was commissioned into the Officer Corps, and PCS’d to CoA, Hq Bn, HQMC, Arlington, VA. There, he became a Supply Officer and Merchandise Manager. His awards and medals include the National Defense Service Medal, Rifle Marksman Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, and Vietnam Campaign Medal (with device). Although Capt. Olson served with honor and dedication; he called his service his “duty and not worth talking about, especially damn ‘Nam.” Capt Olson received an honorable discharge from the US Marine Corps on July 1, 1967.

Philip was born during the Depression to highly religious parents. His single mother raised Philip and his sister with the help of family and orphanages. He was always considered an “odd child” who today we would recognize as having Autism Spectrum Disorder.
His stepfather appreciated Philip’s uniqueness and allowed him to find his way, becoming a Math Prodigy and excelling at school and athletics. Once he joined the US Marine Corps, the value of his math talents was recognized, and he was assigned to the position of computer code writer ( software engineer) and sent to college to obtain his Master’s in Statistics. He applied his math and computer skills for the next 4 years, accumulating patents for the Navy’s computer technical division.

Upon retirement, Philip pursued his dream of sailing the Atlantic Ocean. He purchased a boat, “Erica,” and lived on it for 2.5 years. His ports of call included the Canadian Maritimes, Florida Keys, the Caribbean, the Gulf of Mexico, and the coasts of Central and South American countries. He “retired” a second time and settled in a tennis community in Florida, where he enjoyed playing tennis frequently until he passed from colon cancer.

Philip, “SQL,” loved his family and passed on his love of science fiction, hiking mountains, exploring oceans, appreciating cultures, and fine food to his children. He was stubborn, complicated, and frustrating at times but loving and brilliant always. But his best quality by far was that he was “very, very human.”

Philip is survived by his seven children and their spouses, 19 grandchildren, and 13 great-grandchildren. Four of his children retired or resigned from the military branches: the Navy, the Army (2 West Point Graduates), and the Coast Guard.

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Lori (Lorine) Kaye Schmucker, 58 of Ligonier passed away on Thursday, June 14, 2018 from suicide after a lifelong battle with mental illness.

She was born on June 12, 1960 in San Diego, CA to Gerald Schmucker and the late Sara (Bolby) Schmucker. Her four siblings from oldest to youngest include Vivkie King, Debbie King, Rina Piper, and Wayne Strauss. She is a mother of two children, Chay Marshall and Hannah Workman.

Lori graduated from Westmoreland County Community College with an Associates in Applied Science in electronics engineering technology. She served in the Air Force and receieved the Good Conduct Medal, Longevity Service Award. While in the Air Force she also served four years as a digital flight simulator specialist. It was her love of military service that inspired her brother to join the Air Force as well.

Lori enjoyed telling jokes, laughing, singing, and paying guitar with her friends and family. She was very much in harmony with all things from the earth. She had an avid appreciation of the outdoors, walks in the woods, bead collecting, and jewelry making. She would frequently give her creations to others as a gesture of her love.

Her family would like to share the message of hope that her difficulties healing will serve in some way to inspire other veterans who are suffering in their healing journey to seek treatment and to prevent them from taking their own lives.

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SGT Billy Turner joined the US Army in 1963 in New York, NY. He served bravely and honorably during the Vietnam Conflict in both the Active and Reserve components. His MOS (military occupational specialty) was 11B, Infantryman. His responsibilities also included Communications. His awards and medals include the Combat Infantryman Badge, Vietnam Service Medal, Marksman (Rifle M-14) 1 O/S Bar, and the distinguished Bronze Star Medal for “Meritorious Achievement in Ground Operations Against Hostile Forces.” Billy was honorably discharged from the US Army in 1969.

After leaving the military, Billy became an entrepreneur, founding Made Pretty by Turner Upholstery. His craftsmanship and creative talent for designing and repairing furniture were unmatched. People traveled from afar for “Mr. Billy” to help decorate their homes. He also drove school buses for New Hanover County Schools. He took this role seriously, knowing he played a vital part in keeping children safe on their way to and from school.

Billy was a true gentleman and strongly believed in community service. His community work included visiting the elderly and sick, prison ministry, feeding the homeless, and helping those with food insecurities. He loved fishing and teaching youth how to develop interpersonal and life skills. His caring nature and genuine interest in others helped many lead successful, fulfilling lives. People naturally gravitated toward him; he never met a stranger and was always ready to help anyone. Drawing from his military experience, he encouraged everyone to consider joining the military to serve their country, travel the world, and pursue an education. His family and friends miss him dearly and feel privileged to call him Daddy, Grandpa, friend, companion, and confidant.

Billy is survived by Mary Turner and his children, Regina Boston, Michael Turner, and Cyrenda Smith. His siblings include Myrtle Jenkins, Gregory Smith, and Robbin Smith. He leaves behind numerous grandchildren.

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Some men move through life leaving it better than they found it. Not through grand gestures or public recognition, but through the steady, daily work of showing up and treating every person they meet with genuine decency. Lambert Theodore Voet, Jr., known to those who loved him as Bert, the cookie man, was that kind of man. Bert’s character showed itself long before the Navy ever shaped it. As a young man, he was an accomplished athlete competing in both football and baseball, with enough ability to earn a place on the All-American Baseball Team in just his sophomore year of high school. That kind of recognition requires discipline and an uncommon will to excel. It was a quality that never left him. Shortly after his eighteenth birthday, Bert enlisted in the United States Navy. He did not wait to be called. He went. And in that single decision, he set the tone for everything that would follow.  He served as a Radarman 3rd Class aboard the USS Bottineau (BOT-ih-no), an attack transport vessel, during the Korean War. The men who serve on ships like the Bottineau are not always the ones history remembers by name, but they are the ones who make everything else possible. Steady, disciplined, and dependable. By all accounts, that was Bert.  He rarely spoke of his time in uniform. After his service, Bert worked in an art gallery. A man of broader range than most would expect. He then enrolled at Appalachian State University on a football scholarship, and in 1957 earned his degree in Social Studies and Physical Education. His civilian career took him through the Amoco Oil Company and the Federal Paper Company. But it was outside of work where the full measure of Bert Voet revealed itself. 

He loved to fish. He loved cooking. And he had a particular gift for baking; one he shared freely and often. Bert gave cookies to his friends and neighbors with such consistency and generosity that he became known throughout his community simply as the Cookie Man.  His warmth was genuine. His kindness was constant. His decency was the kind that left a mark on everyone fortunate enough to be in his life. And running beneath all of it was a deep and sincere faith. Bert’s devotion to God was not something he kept to himself; he shared his faith openly with anyone who would listen.  Bert is survived by his beloved wife Faylene, two brothers, a son and daughter-in-law, and a granddaughter who was, by all accounts, the love of his life.  

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SGT Claude William Weaver, “Dickie” enlisted in the US Marine Corps on Jan. 18, 1951, following his graduation from Rankin High School. His MOS (military occupation specialty) was Infantry. He served on Active Duty for 3 years until a severe right arm injury resulted in a medical discharge. He was confined to Walter Reed Hospital for 11 months, undergoing numerous surgeries to recover from his injuries. He served honorably and courageously in the Korean War. His medals and awards include the Korean Service Medal with 1 Star, the U.N. Service Medal, the Navy Occupation Service Medal, the Good Conduct Medal, the Purple Heart Medal, and the Silver Star Medal for “conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity in action against enemy aggressor forces in Korea on 28 Mar 1953.” He received an Honorable discharge on January 31, 1954.
Upon discharge from the US Marine Corps, he returned to his hometown, Greensboro, NC. He was accepted at Lees-McRae College in Banner Elk, NC. While attending college, he was voted class president and asked to apply for the Morehead Scholarship at UNC-Chapel Hill. His application and credentials were stellar, and he was chosen from numerous applicants from all over the US. He was awarded this prestigious scholarship and graduated from UNC-Chapel Hill. Subsequently, Dickie went to work for General Dynamics in Florida, then Duke University in Durham, NC.
When he left Duke University, he started his consulting firm, Weaver and Associates, which grew into a highly successful business. He retired after leading and steering the business into a highly professional, reputable company for 30 years.
Dickie was an outstanding baseball pitcher in high school and the minor leagues. The injury he sustained in Korea ended his baseball career, but not his love for baseball. He was a strong supporter of Lees-McCrae College in Banner Elk, NC. He loved to play golf and played for many years in the Yorkey-Rainey Golf tournaments at Duke University. His passion was gardening in his yard, which he maintained until he was 93. Dickie was an avid reader, visiting the library weekly and checking out five books at a time.
Dickie was a very generous man to many. If he ever met someone in need, he was the first to pull out his wallet and help them. His favorite charity was always St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital. He knew the importance of research and recruiting highly clinically trained medical professionals who deal with many pediatric catastrophic diseases.
Claude William Weaver, Jr. is survived by one daughter, Karen Annette Weaver of Greensboro, NC.

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Dean Wyman received his last set of wings on November 10, 2021. He was born in Houston, TX on July 6, 1956.

Dean proudly served as a member od the 3rd Special Forces Group and spent three tours in Haiti as an SF Medic where he eagerly assisted the Haitians and his fellow members. Soon after he transferred to the “puzzle palace” to teach you SF medics some of whom are still actively serving today. Prior to becoming an SF medic he was honored to be a part of the 247th Medical Detachment Unit located at Ft. Irwin, CA where he received three Sikorsky awards for saving life, limb, and/or eyesight as a flight medic. His other accomplishments include providing medical training as the Director of Training to new Federal Air Marshal officers post 9/11. Later he continued his service to our country fighting terrorism – serving multiple tours in Iraq and Afghanistan, and  providing medial support for Protective Sercurity Detail for the Department of State and the Department of Defense for Blackwater (now known as Academi) amd other similar companies. Immediately prior to Dean’s death he was actively engaged in activities to support underserved veterans under his corporatopm Ratel Group, Inc. The family will continue these activities as appropriate.

He is preceded in death by his father, Charles Edward Wyman, who also proudly served in the United States Army. Dean is survived by his mother, Carroll Lee Wyman of Kerrville, TX, his brother, Lee Jay Wyman of Everett, WA, his daughter, Valarie Rachelle Reilly of Edgemoor, SC, his two sons, Bradley Garrett Wyman and Zachery Robert Wyman of Wilmington, NC, and two grandchildren.

The video below is of Dean on Memorial Day 2019