Non-Profit Veteran Organization in Carolina Beach, NC | Veterans Memorial Reef
Honoring The Ones Before Us

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We are Veterans Memorial Reef – Veterans Serving Veterans

Veterans Memorial Reef is a nonprofit veteran organization that honors our nation’s veterans by placing them in a unique aquatic memorial, allowing them to be laid to rest at sea. After cremation, a veteran’s cremains are respectfully transferred into an aquatic urn, which is then sealed within a concrete memorial marker. The marker is lowered to the seafloor, where it becomes part of a permanent artificial reef.

Our reef is located off the coast near Carolina Beach and Wrightsville Beach, North Carolina. Through this commemoration, we honor the lives and service of veterans while also supporting marine life and helping to strengthen and preserve our coastline.

Non-Profit Veteran Organization in Carolina Beach, NC | Veterans Memorial Reef

Our Mission

Our mission is to honor those who have served with distinction in the US Armed Forces. We commemorate their passing through remembrance and emphasize education about the history of the US military—past, present, and future—and our marine ecosystem. This technology will aid in preserving, rehabilitating, and protecting our natural ocean reef ecosystems by integrating artificial memorial markers with reef technologies.

Our Goals

Veterans Memorial Reef is a 501(c) 3 publicly supported non-profit veteran-operated organization. We strive to honor our fallen heroes through memorial services with the following goals in mind.

Recognize
We aim to recognize every veteran who served honorably in the United States Military.
Commemorate
We commemorate their decorations and awards received in service.
Educate

We work with higher education institutions to use the Veterans Memorial Reef site for monitoring marine biology areas, promoting the preservation and supporting the future growth of marine life.

Rehabilitate
Our reef memorials provide areas for fish to breed and hide from predators. Create surfaces for reef spores to attach to and thrive. Increase reef growth to boost oxygen levels.  Improve areas for recreational fishing and scuba diving.
Veteran Memorial in Carolina Beach, NC | Veterans Memorial Reef

Benefits

Veterans Memorial Reef is not VA Affiliated but we can assist to the best of our ability the surviving spouse, children, or family members with the benefits they may be eligible to receive at the below links.

History

After serving 25 years in the military, first in the U.S. Air Force and later in the Army National Guard as a Deputy Flight Surgeon in North Carolina, Thomas Marcinowski knew he wanted to be buried at sea, connected to the places his boots had touched in service. While reading a National Geographic article about an underwater columbarium, he saw a way to make that vision possible not just for himself, but for fellow veterans and their families as well. From that moment, the concept of Veterans Memorial Reef was born: a permanent, dignified service at sea that honors the entire veteran, not ashes scattered, not remains mixed into concrete, but a full and lasting tribute beneath the water.

BOARD OF DIRECTORS

Thomas Marcinowski, Founder/President

Thomas Marcinowski is a dedicated veteran whose military service began in 1987. He served in Desert Storm and Operation Provide Comfort, supporting humanitarian and rebuilding efforts, before transitioning to the Air Force Reserve and later the North Carolina Army National Guard. During Operation Iraqi Freedom, he served as an infantry battalion aid surgeon and concluded his military career in 2012 as the Deputy State Flight Surgeon of North Carolina.

Today, Thomas serves as a Physician Assistant at the Wilmington VA Health Care Center, where he continues his lifelong commitment to advocating for veterans and standing up for those who need it most.

Joe Irrera, Vice President

Joe Irrera has dedicated over thirty years to serving others, beginning with his distinguished career in the United States Marine Corps. As a Lieutenant, he served as an Artillery and Intelligence Officer, and was deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan. He retired as a Marine Colonel in 2014.
After transitioning to the civilian sector, Joe spent over 20 years in sales, operations, training, and management roles at companies like PPD, Chiltern, and Novartis. His ability to create a positive, welcoming environment makes him an asset wherever he goes.
Joe is also deeply committed to service, having served as one of the founding board members of Veterans Memorial Reef (VMR). His leadership has been key in the success of VMR’s ceremonies and launches, and he continues to make valuable contributions as Vice President.

Chris Dehart, Board Member

Chris DeHart is a veteran of the Army National Guard, where he served for eight years, including a 2004 deployment to Iraq as a Specialist and Cavalry Scout. During his deployment, he was selected for a Personal Security Detail responsible for protecting senior leadership and medical staff, where he formed a lasting bond with Thomas Marcinowski while serving as his bodyguard.

Chris serves on the Board of Veterans Memorial Reef and is the owner of All About Energy Solutions, where he has led the company to sustained growth in the energy savings industry. He remains deeply committed to supporting fellow veterans and his community.

Terri Medlin, Chairman

Terri Medlin

Chairman of the Board

Terri Medlin brings a distinguished record of leadership in emergency management, healthcare, and military service to Veterans Memorial Reef. She currently serves as the Deputy Director of Emergency Management for New Hanover County, where she plays a key role in preparedness, response, and incident management for the community.

A Registered Nurse with 23 years of experience, Terri has a strong clinical background in emergency medicine and formerly served seven years as Nurse Manager at the VA Wilmington Healthcare Center. She holds a graduate degree in nursing and has dedicated her professional career to high-stakes environments that require calm leadership, operational discipline, and compassion.

Terri is a 26-year veteran of the United States Coast Guard (O-4), prior enlisted, with extensive experience in search and rescue, law enforcement, incident management, and expeditionary warfare, both overseas and at home. She is currently serving out of Norfolk, Virginia.

In addition to her professional and military service, Terri is a devoted parent of three and remains actively engaged in community outreach, including homeless services, veteran support initiatives, and local community events. Her lifelong commitment to service and leadership aligns strongly with the mission of Veterans Memorial Reef to honor veterans while protecting and restoring coastal ecosystems.

Wade Coble, Board Member
Wade Coble is a mortgage executive and loan officer with ONE-Presidential Mortgage, where he leads with a strong focus on relationships, growth, and community impact across North and South Carolina. A proud UNC Wilmington graduate, Wade has called Wilmington home since 1991. He and his wife, Robin, who met while they were both students at UNCW, have built their life here with their three children: Taylor, Trey, and Lucas.
Veterans Memorial Reef was honored to be selected as a quarterly charity by ONE Presidential Mortgage, and Wade, along with Craig Gore, volunteered with us throughout our three-day Fallen Heroes Ceremony, providing hands-on support that made a lasting impact. From that experience, Wade connected deeply with our mission, and the rest is reefstory.
Today, he proudly serves on our Board, helping ensure that our veterans are honored in a way that is both meaningful and lasting.
Troy Alphin, Board Member
Troy is a research faculty member at the UNCW Center for Marine Science and a true champion for our coast. His work focuses on restoring and protecting the habitats that matter most: oyster reefs, marshes, living shorelines, and tidal creeks. He’s also the creator of North Carolina’s first shellfish aquaculture siting tool and a leader in helping growers and innovators succeed through UNCW’s Center for Innovation & Entrepreneurship.
For Veterans Memorial Reef, Troy has been more than a supporter; he’s been a mentor, connector, and advocate nearly since our beginning, helping guide our leadership and opening doors to programs like UNCW Center for Innovation and Entrepreneurship – CIE and the Ocean Innovation Conference.
His passion for sustainability and service aligns perfectly with our mission, honoring those who served while protecting the waters they once defended.
Chris Miller, Board Member

Colonel (Ret.) Chris Miller, U.S. Army, is a seasoned IT and defense-sector business leader with more than 37 years of experience in strategic planning, resource management, cybersecurity, IT training and development, network operations, and integrated voice and data systems. His career spans military service, joint command operations, and private-sector leadership, with a consistent focus on large-scale automation, communications infrastructure, and enterprise IT transformation.

Chris currently serves as Director for the Department of Defense (DoD) Business Unit at Avaya’s Public Sector organization. In this role, he leads teams supporting the U.S. Army, Navy (shipboard and shore), Air Force, Marine Corps, and the Veterans Administration. He is responsible for driving DoD business growth, ensuring successful project execution, strengthening customer relationships, and increasing organizational revenue across defense and federal portfolios.

Prior to entering the private sector in 2013, Chris completed a distinguished 28-year military career in the U.S. Army. He commanded Signal organizations at the Company, Battalion, and Brigade levels and led complex, global IT programs supporting worldwide maintenance, integration, installation, engineering, and logistics operations. His service included leadership of multidisciplinary teams executing enterprise-level initiatives in strategic planning, multimillion-dollar budget management, process improvement, and continuous 24/7 operations.

His military career culminated as a Division Chief within the Army Chief Information Office/G6, where he managed a staff of government and contractor personnel responsible for developing, maintaining, and governing the Army’s IT policies, regulations, and publications—shaping enterprise-wide IT governance and operational standards.

Chris holds a Master of Strategic Studies from the United States Army War College and a Master of Administrationfrom Central Michigan University.

He and his wife, Ann Waters, have been married for 39 years and reside in North Carolina. They have three children, two of whom live in Wilmington, North Carolina.

Vivian Yuditsky, Executive Assistant

Since joining Veterans Memorial Reef in November 2024, Vivian Yuditsky has played a central role in modernizing and expanding the organization’s operations. Initially volunteering to transfer and configure the organization’s domain and Microsoft 365 infrastructure, her role quickly expanded to include website management, social media revitalization, digital marketing, and event collateral development through her company, VivTech Solutions.

In addition to her contracted work, Vivian has served in a volunteer role as Executive Assistant, supporting leadership with standard operating procedures, personnel documentation, grant writing, volunteer coordination, and the organization’s transition from paper-based processes to fully digital systems. She has also led media and marketing efforts, resulting in local and national coverage, including features in StarNews and Military.com.

Working closely with the Founder and President, Vivian has helped establish key community partnerships, including collaboration with the Harrelson Center, contributing to increased visibility, operational efficiency, and long-term organizational growth.

 

FOR MORE INFORMATION

For more information about our services, or if you or a family member are in need of assistance, please reach out to our Veteran Services Coordinator. We are here to support and guide you through the resources available to veterans and their families.

Email us at: contact@veteransmemorialreef.org  for more details or assistance.

Administrative Office (By Appointment Only)
7 Beauregard Drive
Wilmington, NC 28412